Month: February 2024

It’s complicated.  It’s so natural for us to want to defend ourselves and justify our actions when in relationship and accused.  We want to focus on and bring to light all that we feel we have done right and minimize […]

What makes you feel emotionally uncomfortable?  We all know the acute pain that explodes when we trip, land hard and skin up our hands and knees.  Or to suffer a pounding headache or raw sore throat.  Most of us at […]

It’s Valentine’s week.  Retailers take advantage of the hype.  It’s a big day.  Engagements happen.  Reservations for bougie restaurants are booked out.  Florists’ hands are getting cut up, backs are aching with all the arrangements they are cranking out.  Chocolate […]

Oh the myriad ways we fail to love.  Again-sneaky.  So often, I think we think of the ‘aggressive’ personality in conflict as the ‘bad guy’ and the ‘passive’ personality as the person ‘walking with the shiny halo’ on top.  But […]